How to Attract Women
If you want to know exactly how to attract women, look no further.
You probably know a woman who has a sweet personality, nice body and a gorgeous face, yet only dates average-looking men. How can you get this woman to like you instead? You’re already well equipped with a barrage of cutting-edge seduction techniques courtesy of the SonicSeduction program, but you want to know how to handle the “power” and use it to attract women quickly.
First, understand this. Although men mainly get attracted to the opposite sex because of their physical beauty, women mainly get attracted to men because of their charming personality. To women, the perfect man would be an alpha male – a man with a ton of self-confidence and a take-control attitude in life. Like your the archetype Sonic Seducer as preached by Derek Rake.
But here’s the kicker. Even the most confident of us need a “booster” technique that we can use anytime we see a beautiful woman we want to approach and attract. Without further ado… here’s the Disqualification technique off the SonicSeduction bible which works wonderfully well during the start of any approach. Read on…
“A woman meets a man in a bar who she’s initially attracted to, but later in the interaction she becomes disinterested…
What do you think are the 3 biggest attraction killers that men are guilty of making?”
The Biggest Attraction Killers (voted by 21 Female Dating Experts!)
#1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span
#2 Too much sexual intent
#3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied third place)
#4 Risky topics – i.e ex girlfriends, sex & politics
#5 Being too drunk
#6 Bad hygiene
#7 Being over eager
#8 Not being present – i.e. not enjoying the moment
Being The Challenge
When you “disqualify” a woman, you cannot show a woman that you feel challenged by her. On the contrary, you should be the one challenging her.
You see, aside from making yourself look valuable in her eyes, you can also build up your social network to eliminate neediness altogether. Since women are generally easy to become friends with, try to become friends with more women from now on.
Whenever women see other women fawning over a man, they instantly feel the need to do the same.
In the world of psychology, this is called “social proof“, and tends to be very powerful in women. If you have ever noticed several women drooling over a single man at a bar, then that would be social proof happening in real life. Remember that it’s a potent seduction tool, and if you use it in conjunction with a technique such as fractionation then you can expect explosive results right from the bat.
Now, there is nothing wrong with finding a woman gorgeous and feeling something for her. The secret simply lies in reminding yourself that there are a ton of other women out there, as well, who are just as gorgeous as the woman that you like, if not even more so.
If you begin to believe that a woman is unique, this will give her power over you.
Once she notices that she has the power in the relationship, she will lose interest in you in no time. So, feel free to find a woman amazing – just keep in mind that other women are amazing, too. Also, don’t forget to place yourself on a pedestal, make her see that you are worth the trouble, and date other women while you’re at it.
A Final Word of Warning
Finally, we will need to warn you against using this knowledge to make women “addicted” to you – remember that karma is a bitch, and you should always leave them better than when you found them. Subliminal seduction techniques such as fractionation is morally neutral, and it’s up to you to use it for good OR bad.
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Fractionation, the Secret Seduction Technique Demystified
Have you ever dreamed of having that prince charming quality? The ability to instantly attract women without effort? Fractionation is rumored to give men superpowers when it comes to seduction. The concept was first explored by famous psychologists like Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung. Many years later, the fractionation technique was developed by John Grinder. Derek Rake perfected the method during the 1990’s and then released a course called Sonic Seduction (still for sale online).
TECHNIQUES AND PREPARATION
You can’t just walk up to a woman and start saying things to get her emotions going! Although fractionation is said to work for anyone, you need to “prepare the playing field,” so to speak. Before you attempt fractionation, work on the following:
The goal here is to put yourself in a position so that the woman you’re eying already wants you (before you start talking). Make sure you look your best (wear something trendy, smell nice, etc.).
- Leadership Skills – girls like leaders, not followers; think “alpha male”
- Special Interests – be unique! What makes you stand out from the crowd?
- Social Skills – you need to know how to talk to women; girls don’t like an awkward guy. Practice your social skills by talking to men and women around town.
- Confidence – the #1 most attractive quality to women, no matter what your body type!!
- Know the Area – you want to be familiar with the hot spots around town.
THE EMOTIONAL RIDE
cuplu1Fractionation is similar to the tactic used by soap operas: likable, easy to identify with characters are exposed to heart-wrenching drama in order to get the audience emotionally invested in the show. And it works – think about how many women like soap operas! In regards to seduction, fractionation can be described as a combination of “mind control,” body language, tone of voice, and hypnosis. There are two basic steps in this seduction technique:
STEP ONE: BUILD AN EMOTIONAL BOND (WITHOUT HER KNOWING)
This is where good conversational skills and body language come into play. You need to know how to talk to girls before you can attempt fractionation. The goal here is to establish trust between the two of you. This bond encourages her to open up to you, which is vital to the second step. When you find the woman you want to talk to, stay away from the mindset that she’s “out of your league.” Instead, you want to make her feel like you are out of her league. When you start talking, stay confident and ask her lots of questions about herself (women love to talk about themselves).
STEP TWO: EMOTIONAL CONVERSATION
Create compelling conversation that elicits emotional ups and downs (she will then anchor the ups to you). First, ask her to describe something that made her happy. Next, ask her to tell you about something that made her sad or afraid. Repeat the sequence once more and she’s all yours. When a woman feels positive and negative emotions in quick succession combined with the aura you’re giving off, your tone of voice, and your body language, she’ll melt. The theory is based on polarity: when the human brain is exposed to a sequence of pleasure/pain/pleasure/pain it creates a strong emotional bond.
- “You know how good it feels to have your best friend right next to you? Like you can take on the world together? I had a friend like that. One day she got sick and died. She was just … gone.”
- Have you ever met a person and felt deep down that it was meant to be? That fate had brought you together? I experienced that once. We became so close, so fast. Only a few weeks later she got into a car accident and she was just … gone.”
As you can probably guess, it’s not easy to weave these topics into conversation. This is going to take a LOT of practice. Fractionation is very hard to master, but once you figure it out you should be able to get any woman you want.
Try to build suspense when talking to women – just think how much girls love drama! In other words, don’t express that you are into her right away. Make her work for your attention and act aloof. If she feels too comfortable around you, she will lose interest. It’s also okay to confuse her a little. If you’ve just started dating someone, act nonchalant one minute and very “into her” the next. This sort of behavior keeps her on her toes and will drive her crazy (in a good way)!
THINGS TO AVOID
After you’ve taken a girl home or earned a few dates, keep in mind that the work has just begun. Below is a list of behaviors to AVOID whether you’re single or in a relationship.
- Asking for morning sex after you’ve spent all night having sex – face it, she’s probably sore or tired. And have you brushed your teeth?
- Lack of manners – men who are rude, talk down to others, or can’t say a sentence without swearing are not attractive; in other words, be a gentleman!
- Talking about how hot mutual friends or other women are – this is just annoying
- Telling an angry female to calm down – this may be the most infuriating behavior of all time
- Complain about the girl’s period
- Posting pictures of yourself hanging out with scantily clad women – this just isn’t tasteful
- Let your hygiene go south – seriously, body odor is the worst thing ever, not to mention cologne can be an aphrodisiac
- Act cocky – women associate cockiness with lack of loyalty
Follow the above advice, do your homework, and if you think you’re ready, go ahead and try fractionation. Don’t be afraid to walk away if it doesn’t work. The best part is that the technique can be used on ANYONE – the girl next door, the hottest girl you’ve ever seen, your best friend, a coworker, even an ex wife or current girlfriend!